What props/toys would you consider taking to bed with you and your partner? Sex toys in the bedroom? Yes, please! Obviously, this is a negotiation type of conversation with any potential partner, before you enter the bedroom. The last thing you want to do is hop into bed and have...
What messages did your caregivers give you about intimacy, romance, and/or sex as a child? The only sex education I had growing up was in the ‘we don’t talk about it’ category. I don’t even really remember my parents ever kissing in front of me. My mom was pretty… I...
In what ways is your partner a good lover? I can’t answer this question since I don’t currently have a partner. Sure, I’m seeing someone, but we haven’t reached the partner-level yet. Will we? That remains to be seen. Do I think he’d be a good lover? Yes. We did...
Everyone has advice on how to write more words And not all writing advice will work for everyone. That’s why there are so many articles about how write more, faster, smarter. Writers who are prolific in their craft will happily tell you their method is the best. But here’s the...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 26, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
Goals for My Erotic Life: Well, I just found the Erotic Journal Challenge a weekish ago and so far it’s been good. The quizzes were great for learning more about myself as a sexual being. I hope you enjoyed reading my results and your own. Also, I look forward to...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 25, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
Today’s erotic journal challenge is for the Sex Type Personality Test. I am slightly confused about some of my results… let’s do this! Here is your direct link to Sex Type Me Test. Analytical vs. Emotional You are ruled by your emotional impulses and make decisions with your heart rather...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 24, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
Queendom’s Sex Personality Test is today’s Erotic Journal Challenge I’m not sure why, but the link worked for me yesterday but not today. I went to the Queendom website, but couldn’t find a direct link (maybe it’s named something else) to the sex personality test. So, I did what I...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 23, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
I wasn’t surprised by my results for the Erotic Blueprint Quiz. I’m a people-pleaser after all, and that includes indulging a partner’s sexual whims if it piques my fancy. Results for the Erotic Blueprint Quiz* As a Shapeshifter Type™ you’re the most sophisticated of all the Blueprints. You’re turned on by the...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 22, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
Wow. Today’s Erotic Journal Challenge is to take the Love Language Quiz. Do you know your 5 Languages of Love? When I took the quiz the first time, I had a 0% for Gifts. And I have a reason for that. If you take this quiz, almost every one has...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 21, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
Yes, I know this is a day late, it’s okay. I planned it that way. No, I’m not joking. Prompt: Plan ahead for the coming week. Goals? Considerations? What will you do differently? The Same? I’m not a planner. Or a plotter. I’m a gardener leaning into being an architect....
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 19, 2022 · Last modified January 31, 2023
Have you joined the Erotic Journal Challenge? Today’s prompt is about reflection of the past week. Prompt: Take some time to reflect on this past week. What went well? What felt good? What challenges surfaced? What did you learn? This past week has so many good things to reflect on....
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 18, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
Have you joined the Erotic Journal Challenge? Today’s prompt is about sexual freedom. Reminder that this is my website and my blog and how I’ve had to put things in perspective to move forward. Prompt: When have you felt the most free, sexually? Explore that. Growing up in a family...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 17, 2022 · Last modified June 27, 2022
I just recently found the Erotic Journal Challenge on Instagram! Thank you for following me on that account, Brigit! I look forward to seeing your prompts. XoXo Prompt: Do you save certain things for special occasions? Impose limits? Create boundaries? Tell yourself no? Wow. This hits me on so many...
1. One of my ideas is to someday create: Oh wow. There are so many ways I could answer this question. The 64 million dollar answer though… if I had unlimited funds, I would create a safe online haven for authors, educators, and workers of all kinds in the vast...
by Mischa Eliot · Published February 14, 2022 · Last modified March 18, 2022
I decided after a few interactions and conversations, it was time for a reminder. I want you to say this out loud: Fiction isn’t real. Go ahead, say it with me: Fiction isn’t Real. This shouldn’t be something I have to say here, being as everything on this website from...
Oh this one is interesting, folx. This morning, the Roommate and her guy friend get up and she’s like ‘omg, ask him what he tried to do last night.’ So, of course, I ask. I mean, who am I if not good at following instructions? Personally, I have no idea...
Landing pages are bread and butter for all kinds of things, but what about Quicklinks pages? They help people find things quick and easy and get on their way. I finally took some time to renovate the Quicklinks pages used by myself and Dr. J. The goal was to make...
by Mischa Eliot · Published December 22, 2021 · Last modified October 17, 2022
Dating in the Age of Apps Dating apps have been around for quite awhile now, but it still seems difficult to meet someone who totally clicks. You are not alone. Unlike some people, I need more than a week or two before classifying what we have as a Relationship. Like...
Oops, I apologize for future emails of posts I’m moving from Sisters in Smut. Sadly, I’ve made the choice to not renew the Sisters in Smut domain. We haven’t been using it often enough to keep it up and running. I’ve let the others know that I plan to let...
by Mischa Eliot · Published September 2, 2021 · Last modified January 31, 2023
Since I haven’t been writing I have given up the M.J. Spencer author name. I’ve removed the titles (or at least put them back in draft-mode everywhere because there is no such thing as deletion) from Amazon and Smashwords. I’ve also removed the author pages on both platforms as well....
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